Wow! Thanks for your honesty. I’m kind of shocked by what u say tbh, but I’m not being critical bcos that’s your own pov… I’m still shocked!
I think this may have something to do with the “connection” thing, it’s easier to connect with someone who is similar to u.
I’m very fair skinned and Mr Halwa is very dark in contrast. We often get comments from people who make weird comments about how odd it is we got together, but may be it’s bcos they don’t usually expect it. I don’t know.