So kakaballi, r u saying that if a person has insecurities about their own skin colour, this is picked up by others who interact with him / her and their behaviour is a response to the individuals own insecurities?
I'm not sure about that, bcos that's like saying that everyone who has been discriminated against bcos of their skin colour, it's their own fault???
I am saying that the people who do not have insecurities about themselves because of their skin colour are not discriminated against. I have seen Pakistani girls with fair complexion are generally much more confident and vibrant than those with darker complexion specially when they are in a group consisting of both types.
Someone mentioned south Indians but I have always found them to be much more cultured and humane than north Indians or Pakistanis. They do not have an inferiority complex just because of the tone of their skin.