Re: Address with respect …
I only use the word “app” when i am talking to my father or mother…
I don’t think i will ever call my wife “aap” and i wouldn’t expect this from her either…i mean c’mon…open up lol there is no need to be so formal when u are married.
When communicating in urdu, i would expect her to use the word “tum”, or just address me with my name instead of using “aap”.
I hardly speak urdu with my siblings or mates…“tum” or “aap” problem solved 