Re: Address with respect ...
I call my husband 'aap'. Even though we are practically the same age, and have known each other since high school, despite that I can't just let go of the 'aap'. Although we converse in english most of the time, but whenever it's urdu, its gotta be aap from my side. I guess like some people here mentioned, I have also seen my mom calling my dad 'aap', in fact she doesnt even use his name, it's mostly sunieye and all that. I don't think I can do the suniye thing, haha (even tho i think its too cute), but 'aap' works for now! :).