Yeah, you are right, I wouldn’t count them as relationships. I dated some girls which I thought would be the gifts to humanity and soon after I didn’t care for them at all. The best girl for me was the kind of girl I wasn’t into but dating many girls before I realized that the kind of girl I didn’t like is the best girl for me. Most of the 19/20 yr olds who hang at my house have already had 2 or 3 relationship. Safys best friend Justin was into racy girls and was dating this Jamaican girl who cheated on him several time. Now he is not into racy girls and his new gf is more reserved. Many girls will date losers to start with and realizing that losers are not the way to go, they end up with better guys. You shouldn’t change a bad date into a bad life. One of my wife’s nephew did that. He married the first girl who chased him down and his life really sucks. He has millions in assets and she threatens him with divorce and wont let his father set foot in the house even though she stands to inherit millions.
Too bad, bob. your nephew’s boyfriend’s uncle’s chickadee is a powerlifter whose poop is worth billions. did you know? also, y u lie so much pal? y not have a real life?
I think both need to put in what they want to get out equally. If a guy is putting equal effort the girl should as well. Guys seem not to like it when girls initiate a rishta so guys should initiate that. In times of equality both guy and girl should move heaven and earth for each other. If one person is doing most of the work its not going to work out as well. People should be doing the same amount of work but at least should be on the same page.
My issue is that the guy agreed to more than he had time for. I had a 10 day vacation in the US where i am visiting the west coast with my dad. At the same time meeting family friends and famiy. He is from the east coast but agreed to come to the west coast to meet me and my dad. He said he would book his flight few nights before he would said to meet. I told my dad this. Previously i was communicating with the guy on email and skype. Then in order to meet him i gave him my whatsapp etc. For 6 days on my trip i got no reply from him. On either email or whatsapp. This was when i had access to my
email on my family friends wifi. Then the last 4 days i was travelling i had email issues and got no message on whatsapp. How was i to know he had sent messages to meet? Obviously i was not able to respond.
I understand he is busy at work and its a lot to expect someone to travel from the east to west coast to meet someone but then he should have clarified that. If someone is not seriously interested or has time for a relationship they should let the other person know rather than keep them as an option.
I just thanked him on email for his reply and efforts but if he tries to suggest meeting again I will let him know long distance is not going to work long term. Its better to find someone in the same country.
Lifes too short to dwell on lost relationships or negativity. Best to learn from experiences and move on. You are right. If he doesnt have time to meet in Australia its time to move on. I used to think long distance was possible if there was enough commitment but hard to find that. If u liked someone enough why would a person look at other girls or guys? Fear of long term loss of a great relationship should overcome short term pleasure of a another relationship. If someone finds someone better for them in real life they can let the other person know. Not like i was engaged to the person or our parents had met.
If u find someone who is a good match to u there should be enough topics for conversation that 3 months should seem less. I was a bit hesitant since i felt we didnt have that connection but we developed a good friendship and he was interested enough to meet me. And i wasnt pursuing any other rishtas so why not.
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