Question: accepting the fact that you won’t get married to somebody you love 1 day? anybody here ever thought about it or think along such lines now and then.
Answer: Not really [meaning no, never really thought about it]
2nd part is the reason: I explained the situation that girls who liked me got married but that didn’t make me sad or think about this [question] because I didn’t care. I was never involved in a situation where I loved someone and SHE got married to someone else.
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Nakaam Mohabbat ka har dukh sehna
Har Haal main anjaam say Dartay rehna
Qudrat ka baRa inteqaam hay Jaidi
Mehbooba ki aulaad ka MamooN kehna:silly:
Allah has given us power to control ourselves, as similar to control over desires and sin that are made look gorgeous by shaitan. If I have a will power to control my self, I know when is the right time:)
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^ I KNOW my reply has not much to do with the question, but I still replied. The part you should be really concerend about and that is somewhat related to the question is “Not really”. The reason I go into details is to avoid the question “What do you mean not really?”
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I think its possible my friend is in this position now
But i think its a awfull thought to marry some1 else who
you dont love and you’ll never be with the person who you love.
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well this is very difficult to marry the other person..but sometimes its good for us but we dont realize it ...God has always decided good for us..but this is really true keh dobara piyar kerna bahot mushkil hota hai...:(
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phewww…atlease someone didn’t ask for esplaination and understood the first time what I wrote and meant by it
Well, it’s not mean in my opinion. I was and still am their friend and I told them that I don’t feel the same way for you and they understood. So it worked out, that’s why we are still good friends. I didn’t want to lead on. THAT would be mean, right?
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just a little chapter in my life irem didi which has closed b4 any fireworls. bilakaif maybe one day i will come around and 'open up' and tell you all, u r one of the very few ppl i trust on here.
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yes. i have thought about it and there is a chance...but i also think that when that time comes, i will be able to make a good judgement and marry someone who i will get along with and be happy with, een if im not 100% in love, just as long as im happy.
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Not being raised in a culture where marriages are arranged, I may not have as much influence in what I say...however....
no one knows you better than your parents. Most parents want to see their children lead happy and fruitful lives and would therefore be very careful in choosing a mate for their child. W
ok sorry too much ho gya but kasam se i did mean it