Re: Absolutly fuming…!!!1
Lol. Bud, you are gonna ruin your life if you take the smallest thing such as a text with so much in-depth analysis and whatnot. Learn to let it go. Be the bigger person for once, dude. =/
Trust me, for a long time, I was always holding grudges against my family (cousins, aunts, uncles) for things they did and said.. and it caused me so much stress and annoyance in my life. One day, I just realized, wtf am I doing? They don’t care. They’ll poke and prod (knowingly or unknowingly) and I’ll take the bait. So while they’re chilling not knowing anything, I’m burning up my insides over it. And it probably meant nothing in the first place! Since I’ve started to let things go easily, I’ve built amazing relationships with my family. We’re so tight-knit and love each other tons more. The stress level with them is zero. I’m so much happier and I actually enjoy things.
Stop looking at yourself like you’re the only person in the world, nadz. It will really hurt your relationships/future. Take the first step, learn to control your tongue and keep your emotions in check. Stand in their shoes for a second. They’re having a wedding, things are hectic…whatever, life goes on. No one will look at you as less of a person bcos your name wasn’t on the shaadi card. =/
Sheesh.