Re: About my relationship with my fiance.
Let’s use the birthdays as an example. You have a child with your husband and want to throw a blow-out first birthday party for the kid, but oops! it’s in the first 10 days of Muharram. He’ll never celebrate it and do you know why? Because he’ll want his family to be there as well and his mom and brothers would never countenance it. He will have to choose between you and your family and his family - and that very rarely ends well unless you’re prepared to make compromises. But that requires a mature discussion between the two of you about the practicalities of life. Time to move on from the romance and get to discussing real life issues. If you guys are capable of compromises, this may work, if not, then God be with you.