About my relationship with my fiance.

[NomiCA]

Re: About my relationship with my fiance.

@crazyfool

right now im stuck between goddamnimsoawesome and demesne comments.

one: i want him to be the person i met, the person i loved. if he changed, yes **there will be effects of it on our personal life not just religiously. **( my own name is one name that shias abuse, and he never objected that.) He wont ever want me to have a kids birthday if its muharram even after the first 10 days?
Last year it was our anniversary around before muharram but we had exams so we celebrated it after exams, on 7th muharram no celebration just a dinner.. and this year when it again in the same month, he refused me to keep a status or wish him on his facebook wall.. i asked him why and he said its okay what we do in private but if my brothers see it they wont like it.. Its good to respect but its our day, why should his brothers object our personal affairs? he just said in those ten days he doesnt want to show ppl.. this is a bit odd, like he doesnt want to but afraid of people?

secondly, i dont want him to be a shia cause i dont agree with their beliefs. i cant picture him doing matam and crying and all. i dont accept all that? plus my family doesnt really support that sect either so it will be a bit problematic.

third: why is his brother forcing him? hes clearly old enough to know what he wants and google himself. why preach him? its an act by him which i didnt like.

and my question here is.. what do you think is the probability of him changing 360 degrees? do people do that?

the bold bits make me think…you need to seriously re-consider this…

if liitle issues like birthdays are making you concious now, a lot more is in store when it comes to children and their religoius upgringing…