for those of you who are already married, what was your worst fear pre-wedding, about married life and such. And has it come true, or did you realize your fear was unfounded.
For those not yet married, what is your biggest fear about getting married? Both women and men are welcomed to answer.
seriously I had no fears. I walked into my marriage without any “future” worries or “fears”.
The only worry I had was - ummmm is my hair and make up right for this big day :halo:
My gas issues.
LOL!!!!
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rofl ! @ pyari
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my worries are..
1.if i can adjust in a pakistani family (as they have lived in pakistan all their lives n i have been in dubai)
2.my marriage within few years will go in a rutt n he may cheat on me or i may cheat on him
3.my snoring issue
4.maybe im not able to conceive (happens to alot of gurls after marriage)
5.will my personality change after years of marriage (i hope not)
6.as of now my bf loves me to the point he can literally get the moon fr me like the bollywood way but would he change or stop loving me?
7.will i be happy?
8.will i ever get married ?
9.will i get married bfr 2012 (the world may just end,u never know)
10.will the rock on the ring be big enough?
You may think IM MAD but all these things im worried about!!!
my biggest worries were whether i loved my hubby as much as i thought i did, whether we were a good match, and how i would adjust to my in-laws, though i dont live with them.
i love my hubby more today and more each day after, we're a great match and i get on well with my inlaws :).
first off - it seems that you have too much time to think on your marriage :halo:
secondly - why the hell would conceiving be a part of your issue at this point?
Third you seem selfish/greedy to be thinking about the size of the rock - no wonder there are so many worries hidden within you 
i agree im selfish n i dunt say tht in a rude arrogant way but in a human way i want the best n even if i dunt get a huge function i want a good rock..my demand may sound lame but it is still imp for me!
secondly its an issue cuz where i live past few months i have been listening to such stories of infertility n it has creeped me out cuz more thn anything in the world i love babies..I keep feeling everyone has one bad tragedy in their life atleast but in my life ALHUMDULILAH everythings fine so i cnt help thinking mayb this would be my tragedy!
just random thoughts!!
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The size of the rock?
Really?
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marrying a guy itself is a fear for me.
and that ke i will have to share a room with a man:hmmm:
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we two never thought that far ahead. :D
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One of my fears is if i will fit into whichever house i go into. As i'm a very quiet person, i think it could be misinterpreted as being stuck up.
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errrr…i don’t think i have any fears…i haven’t even thought about shaadi yet…when time will come i will see what the positive & negative sides are and whether i should go ahead or not 
Right now, shaadi is probably the last thing in my mind…i just enjoy present…future will be looked into when it comes ;)
My gas issues.
take some Gas Relief tables in Jahaiz
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It took me 7 years to say yes to marriage… I was sooooo scared.. It scared me that I would have a man around me all the time, whom I would have to look after … I have always feared failure … and I feared that if I marry a traditional pakistani , I will be doomed … i will be a failure wife perhaps ..
But then after my nikkah and before ruksati, I got to know my husband really well … and realized that like in any relationship, I would have to put in efforts , its a give an take … I learnt to be a good wife , still learning … and he takes care of me like a mother protects a child … I now realize , all my fears were meaningless and I just freaking wasted my time whereas I should have gotten married long time ago :hinna:
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will they guy like hockey as much as I do :P
And on a more serious note...will I have to deal with all those crappy family issues...cause i'm not a very argumentative person....and therefore ppl may tend to take advantage of my "niceness!"
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oh dear....i have so many issues that the list is endless....!!!
:(