And on a more serious note...will I have to deal with all those crappy family issues...cause i'm not a very argumentative person....and therefore ppl may tend to take advantage of my "niceness!"
Ahem ahem "niceness" ... lol and yeah malika hockey can be a big issue
on a serious note thou every relationship from mother/daughter, father/son, brother/sister requires work and some sort of give an dtake and marriage is the same ... u gotta work on it and with time u develop ways to appriciate each other's qualities and work around the flaws :)
I'm going to get married this year in a few months..
I have many fears, one of them being not able to cook but my fiance seems very supportive as i had a little talk with him in this matter..
i want to have a very friendly relationship with my husband, but what if we dont become good friends
What if he is a typical pakistani man (he doesnt seem like that but i dont know him much yet)
Will we enjoy each others company
Will he love me as much as he loves his family and will never get tired and fed up of me
Will he accept me as i am as i will accept him as he is
etc etc
-will it affect my career ambitions
-will he cook for me
-that i'll miss my mum
-what if he gets fed up of me and i get bored of him
plus i dont want kids early and he does :(
I am also scared it will affect my career ambitions. I am scared about having kids: the actual birth and life after. Im scared our spark will die after having kids, as I have seen it happen to many (altough I have also seen the opposite too). Im scared of being cheated on, of feeling trapped...blabla bla...
Marriage is amazing. No bf/gf, fiance, other relationship even compares to it.
No worries, no concerns.. and why should there be any? I have someone to call my own, to lean on, someone who is my strength and better half in true words. We have our bad moments, our arguments but at the end of the day, we resolve things because we never go to sleep angry at each other. We have seen the good and the bad, like everyone does, but I still feel blessed to share my life with someone like him because we never let any of it effect our relationship.
Prior to marriage, I did worry about certain things but it has all changed. He always assured and promised me he will take care of me no matter what, and I have seen it come true ever since we became Mr.& Mrs... so nothing bothers me anymore.
Yes, I am the spokesperson for marriage.. shoo and get married, now! :p