Re: About a girl…
The thing is that I’ve tried to tell my parents that she’s doing all of this and she’s not in to me. But desi parent’s mentality is different. They’ve said “oh why are you trying to text her, just straight up give her a call”. To me that’s rushing it, you have to first develop a strong base of communication starting from texts and then you move on to calls. I can’t just randomly call her. She’s not the sort of person who would reciprocate. And on other occasions my parents refuse to accept as they consider it as my defeat, they say a man should always go all the way. Which is utter nonsense. IF the girl doesn’t like me I’m not gonna run after her. Also they say that her parents are very nice people and it would be a huge discomfort of telling them that things are not working out.
It’s just this vicious circle that the girl has put me in now. She’s not hinting at anything, she’s not talking freely, she’s ignoring me. YET she’s not telling me that she’s not interested, I think she wants to end things on my end so she looks like all saintly and then can pretend that “Oh I gave him lots of chances but he’s the one who didn’t want anything to do with me”. MAN some girls are so conniving. I don’t even know what I should do. I’ve confronted her and she said she wanted to take things slowly, BUT Come on man even turtles make it to the shore. I dont know..