Ok so what’s up with women and texting? There is this girl whom I am really interested in. She’s smart and pretty but she never texts me… She’ll send couple of texts one day and then be gone for a whole week, then text me back next or 4 days later saying she was busy.
We’ve met once, and she did the same thing after that, sent couple of texts then disappeared. Now I am ALWAYS the first one to text her. Ask her how she is, I am the one who tries to keep the conversation flowing. Mid conversation she would disappear and then next time I’ll hear from her would be next week. I am so sick of his. Either tell me that you’re not interested in me and I’ll stop expecting texts or anything from you. WHY KEEP ME IN THE LOOP?!
Ok so what's up with women and texting? There is this girl whom I am really interested in. She's smart and pretty but she never texts me... She'll send couple of texts one day and then be gone for a whole week, then text me back next or 4 days later saying she was busy.
We've met once, and she did the same thing after that, sent couple of texts then disappeared. Now I am ALWAYS the first one to text her. Ask her how she is, I am the one who tries to keep the conversation flowing. Mid conversation she would disappear and then next time I'll hear from her would be next week. I am so sick of his. Either tell me that you're not interested in me and I'll stop expecting texts or anything from you. WHY KEEP ME IN THE LOOP?!
What conclusions can be drawn from this scenario?
Simply ask her why she does this. Ask her if she's interested in you too while you're at it. Nothing wrong in being straight forward.
Ok so what's up with women and texting? There is this girl whom I am really interested in. She's smart and pretty but she never texts me... She'll send couple of texts one day and then be gone for a whole week, then text me back next or 4 days later saying she was busy.
We've met once, and she did the same thing after that, sent couple of texts then disappeared. Now I am ALWAYS the first one to text her. Ask her how she is, I am the one who tries to keep the conversation flowing. Mid conversation she would disappear and then next time I'll hear from her would be next week. I am so sick of his. Either tell me that you're not interested in me *and I'll stop expecting texts or anything from you. WHY **KEEP ME IN THE LOOP?! *
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What conclusions can be drawn from this scenario?
You already know, but since you asked; *She.is.not.interested.in.you
*A girl interested in a guy would not disappear for weeks. It's really that simple. :)
You already know, but since you asked; *She.is.not.interested.in.you
*A girl interested in a guy would not disappear for weeks. It's really that simple. :)
GODDAMMIT!
This makes me angry, HULK MAD
Then why ask to meet up, why say "We should meet up". Btw this is a girl whom I'm suppose to get married to. The whole chai trolly thing happened between us.
Then why ask to meet up, why say "We should meet up". Btw this is a girl whom I'm suppose to get married to. The whole chai trolly thing happened between us.
You don't know if she's interested or not unless she says it clearly. Please don't interpret it according to what we tell you. Just ask. Miscommunication usually wrecks relationships and most of it happens because we misinterpret instead of asking clearly. Don't make that mistake.
women are complicated and difficult and confusing and probably bipolar but men cant see it lol...
shes probably just shy/cautious if your r'ship is still new. she probably doesnt want to talk to you much for fear of putting you off or coming across as too clingy?
just give her some time. and after a few months if its still the same then thats a cause for concern. if shes still guarded or whatnot towards you i.e. her to be husband then you should mention it to her instead of dragging it on.
sometimes you just need to disregard the other persons feelings and come out with it straight in order to not waste time.
that being said, do you actually give her something interesting to talk about or is it the standard hi, how are you. im good wbu. thats good yeah fine stuff.
There is this girl whom I am really interested in.
Btw this is a girl whom I'm suppose to get married to. The whole chai trolly thing happened between us.
Since you managed to make this simple issue so confusing....I don't blame her for ignoring you. What exactly is this girl's role in your life? Someone you're interested in OR engaged to?!!
BTW, if families are involved, maybe she has been told by her family to limit her responses and not to initiate contact with you.....you know....the whole "what will he/his parents think of you" talk girls get from parents. Why don't you just man up and directly ask her if she wants to marry you?
Some girls are like that..may be she is into you and not into you. Just ask her if she is interested in pursuing further. If not..then dude..there is always someone else.
change your ID from "Paa Jee" to "Paajii" [nuTkhaT, sharaartii, mischievous etc]...she may think you are a boring person as your nick suggests...YES, she may be lurking on GS...you never know! :D
