Re: About a girl…
Try reversing the situation. When you and the rest of the male species are no longer interested, but don’t have the courage to be forthright…what do you guys do? You either do a “fade-out” or you act in such a repulsive way that it compels her to be the dumper. Some of you might be honest, buy we’re not talking about that lot…we’re talking about the likely behaviors of the ones who don’t reciprocate interest and also lack the courage to say so.
Generally, a girl who seriously considers you a marriage prospect would make an active effort in getting to know the guy. But to be honest, some girls face a lot of pressure from their parents. What this means is that their parents are not very accepting of their reasons for rejection. And I have seen this. For instance, if she’s not attracted to him…for whatever reason…she may fear telling them because she knows they will dismiss her reasons and get angry and then tell her how she ain’t gettin’ younger etc etc etc…and creates tension in the home. You were wondering why she couldn’t just tell her parents if she’s not interested and this can be a plausible explanation.
If your own gut instincts are telling you she isn’t into you, then you have 2 options. Accept your instincts and move on. One potential advantage of this is that she may contact you and if she doesn’t, then it’ll only further confirm your suspicions… but by then you hopefully won’t be so offended as you had already started moving on by no longer contacting her. The 2nd option is that you confront her. Whichever path you go, you’ll be taking control and that is better than playing a tortuous mental guessing game.