About a girl...

[Paa_Jee]

Re: About a girl…

@redvelvet

Do your parents only see her as a marriage prospect or her parents as well? If a mutual understanding took place between both sets of parents and including the girl, that’s troubling. However, if it’s only your folks that feel she’s a marriage prospect…then “prospect” isn’t that significant. If you feel that there’s no excuse for her behavior, then move on. I think it’s more hurtful when you had strong mutual communication and then suddenly they disappear, but if she’s been like this from the get go you can opt to move on quietly or talk to her about it. If you do the latter and you still see no change in her behavior the respect yourself and move on.

Ofcourse my parens see her as a marriage prospect, we did the whole chai trolly thing, then met on our own but I just can’t seem to read her. She doesn’t show any interest, then the long pause between texts, if you’re a woman which i’m assuming you are. Would you not text your would be husband for weeks? And when you do text him it’ll be only for a few seconds? What does that tell me about the interest? Both her parents and my parents see her as a marriage prospect. She’s always been like this, ever since I got her number to talk to her she hasn’t opened up at all. It was the same, she’ll send a few texts then dissapear and I would be the first person to text asking how she is etc, her response would always be @i’m sorry I was busy etc etc…@ I mean if she doesn’t want anything from me, why not just tell her parents she’s not interested. I don’t know…