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December 6, 2011, 2:10pm
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Re: Abort mission Abort mission!
This is the first time I’m posting on this forum. I’ve been a silent reader for quite a while now. But what I am reading right now is shocking. I am not a Pakistani but I am a Muslim dating a Pakistani man. The answers here are quite shocking that I feel compelled to post a response.
First of all, how can you people tell this woman to abort her baby like this? Through a forum nevertheless! And people are being so judgemental.
To the woman in question, if you are reading this, know that the decision is yours and yours alone. It’s your body and your baby. Do what you think is best for you. If you are really going to keep the baby, I think that is a great decision. My mother once told me that you can never know the fate of that child. You never know the blessings the child can bring. That really made me rethink of my view on abortion. Plus there are so many stories I have read where people who were abandoned or thrown away or was nearly killed by their own parents turn to become very successful people.
What is also disturbing is the fact that this guy does not even want to be there for his partner during the abortion. I am truly sorry to say this but he is being a major dou***bag. Having an abortion is not only painful and traumatizing but also life threatening to the mother. Seriously I am so mad at this guy. It isn’t as fun as the process of putting the baby in there now is it?
However, it is also understandable how a man can feel this way. There is a saying that a woman becomes a mother once she found out that she is pregnant. A man becomes a father once he sees his child. So maybe there is hope that he might want this child when the child is born.
After all that is said and done here, I don’t advice this woman to take what is written in a forum seriously. This is literally a matter of life and death. She should really consult with a professional or family member. It is really a bad situation to be in if one has to go through it alone.
I think some people responded that way because they don’t think this is a real post/issue.
And perhaps some people have seen so many bad marriages, they feel it is best to avoid any situation that would keep these two together.
But I think in the small chance that this is a real issue, I would never suggest abortion in a case like this. Abortion isn’t there to help people avoid the consequences of their actions. And it certainly isn’t simple birth control. Especially in a case like this, where the couple has the possibility of creating a good home together and working things out.