Turns out she is preggers. Around five weeks along.
The dilemma sorted itself out when she found out that she was preggers. She wants to be with him and thats that
New dilemma. He wants her to abort the fetus. He feels that they spent so much time fighting to be together, and he isnt in a good place financially to be able to support a child as well. He feels a child will peg them down and they have other plans. He is asking her to abort, she feels the wedding is around the corner, she doesnt need to abort. She’s somehow feeling quite protective of the unborn, while he isnt regarding it as a child.
Well I would say abort but hey the emotional trauma that she will go through and she would never forgive the guy...
but on the other hand if she keeps it the guy wont forgive her the family will disown her (maybe) and she'll just have the kid and herself.
i am already feeling sorry 4 unborn child :( if the guy is financially not stable thn he should have taken precaution before anyhow i agree wth kakee talk talk n talk its their baby n they have 2 decide themselves if they r aborting the baby thn they should consider their marriage again if he is not financially stable thn y is he getting married at first marriage is also a responsibilty
Such a mean person honestly deserves to be beaten. Why didn't they both think before doing it..and when they do it and they know she has a five week little embryo growing inside her, the father is cruel enough to ask him to abort it.
Why didn't finances come into his head when it was brimming with blind lust. And why didn't the girl use her brains too ! Sigh...
So your friend's fiance isnt a Muslim even. Is their nikah jayez then, or would they be court marriaging?
there are so many shouldnt haves in this case. im just so sorry for your friend. The best you can do is keep aside, and leave her alone. If she is that bold she can sort a way out of all this as well.
Why the hell is she even with a non-Muslim?
How in the **** did her parents agree to this?
Loose morals all around - no surprise here
They've made their bed and now they've gotta lay in it.
I have a feeling she will end up aborting, I know girls who have been in this situation and thats what they end up doing.
She needs to re-think her priorities. So does he, thats for sure
