Re: ABCD`s Husbands
^ i honestly feel dat calling him more often will spoil him more , he s already irresponsible n he ll start taking it for granted . i dun call him much now caz i want him to make an effort. i know its not bout me or him its bout making an effort. i find his misconceptions about paki gurls appaling, i believe all sorts of ppl live everywheren besides wateva the masses do , i m his wife , he shud put his trust in me now . i get angered by him which he doesnt let me express. i find this situation really difficult
Nikka KaKa : thxx alot n many congrats to u too n good luck for ur marraige . hope ur wifey joins u soon :)
Hi again n thx for the compliments
I can understand your situation, After reading your reply I felt that You once again thinking about those negative aspects, How do you know that It will spoil him more if you would call him ???? .... He is your husband he is not a stranger ....you can call him whenever you want to ... so Please be positive n think positive.... Did you ever talk to him about his anger ???
As far as trust is concerned .... Do you think a month is enough time to know eachother or trust one another ???? I would say no ....your marriage is totally arranged So you need more time.... all you can do is wait wait n wait Please be patient as i said earliar!
Hope that helps
Good luck:)