Re: Aap versus tum…
hehe I know hareem ! Even though hubby never had a problem with aap or tum. It has been stuck since the beginning. Not that I mind 
But yes for little kids even if I use aap. I don’t go saying ‘xyz, beta aap kya ker rahe hain…kahan ja rahe hain’ It sounds too formal. Am more on the lines of aap ye kero ..aise mess na machao ap.. stuff like that.
Funny but yes that’s the way it has been