Well, if you have frendz or relatives who won't meet you just coz you don't have kids then good riddance. You are better off alone than such people who think so superfically.
The whole reason that they think like that though is because of the stupid idea in our (jahil) community that success is measured by the number of children a person has.....
They don't care about your degree, qualifications, academic/vocational achievements............................... they don't mean success for apneh waleh.
Just last week, my husbands cousing became a father to a second daughter, MIL went round telling people that said cousin was quiet and sad on the phone 'dusree beti hui hai' and SIL was going on about my niece who has 2 boys............i couldn't hold myslef any longer and just said 'They should be grateful - ask someone who has none"