NomiCA
August 3, 2012, 5:57pm
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Re: A woman’s home after marriage
This is shameful. Whatever the reasons be, I dont think anyone can deny a woman’s right to live separately. What could add more to her parents’ stress than having kept and taking care of their married daughter and her kids with them for 8 years!!! aor us pe logo ki baaten. This society of ours, not less than devours the party in such situations.
Well I dont know the wife is stubborn or what, what makes me angry is the complete helpless and poor stance of the husband. I cant imagine why is the wife even entertaining such a husband who comes to stay over only. Its HIS duty to arrange a respectable living for his family. If he cant afford it, his parents should be thoughtful enough, because at the end of the day, the poor guy looses everything just to earn the jannah under the feet of his mother. I dont know what kind of mothers really bear their son’s married life go suffer like this. (unless the wife is really one monster of a woman and well, all evil)
I think your friend’s parents are guilty too. If they can, they should support their daughter manage a separate home. Well since they are affording her expenses already, why not do it in a better way. I dont think parents do ehsan on their kinds any time thye can do anything for them, it be girl’s or boy’s parents. But a married girl still living at her parents, eerr, sounds more like a jag hansaayi. Its sad, but it should be avoided if it can.
why do you think that is such a remote possibility??? your whole post is based on the assumption that the husband and his mother are at fault… why not give equal probability to both assumptions?? yeh kya baat hui?