'A wife should not be sexy..

Lifestyle Relationships
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..even for her husband’

A comment I read on a Muslim forum made me think of this and I remembered a post on GS a while bk which went along the lines of ‘wives are not for fantasising about’ (so who is?).. Is being sexy still equated with negativity even within marriage and if so why?

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I’m gonna kill myself someday :smack:

Don’t stomp on my hopes of halal luvin. Please!:frowning:

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lol!! seriously! Jis kisi ne ye kaha hay uski zehniyat p shak hay mujhay!!

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ahhh.. sex thread..i was missing these sex threads of life1 :k:

PS: could you quote the post so we can see the context of this ridiculous claim?

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I think it is important to have some sexiness in the married life of a couple. It ain't necesarry to show the world the "sparkles" between you 2
lekin it should be there!

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Well, I disagree with the comment, but perhaps it is dependent on the interpretation of the word 'sexy'. If one associates it with promiscuity, then yeah I guess I can see where they are coming from...

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It would be better if u can write the exact word that is used in fatwa or hadith etc.

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You can be completely naked with your husband but you can’t be seski? :confused: May be they meant to say she shouldn’t behave/dress inappropriately even if her husband wants her to in public? Like if he said I want you to wear this revealing dress to dinner, its sexy…? Weird anyway.

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may b not good for husband,s health :devil:

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ohh. i get it now. the poster must’ve read this thread

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/science-and-nature/579206-presence-of-women-makes-men-dumber.html

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Prolly the mullah with the unsexy wife proclaimed such a nonsensical fatwah.

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nvm

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Its human nature...why do people try to deny it.

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So if the wife turns out not to be sexy the husband is then going to go elsewere looking for it with somone else:chai:

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Awaits someone to come in and bash having a sexy wife.

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Who told you this ??? spill the names or I’ll blame western media for it .

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May be sexy here stands for freaky?

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lol fullstop.

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Since the bringing back of Sexy by Mr. Timberlake, I think it is acceptable for wives to appear so. However, given that Mr. Timberlake is a Western heathen whose corrupting influence was most likely kept away from our pure and virtuous Muslim sisters, the effectiveness of Saksi penetration into our households may not have been very efficient. Therefore, there is great need for a Muslim artist to bring said Saksi to the Ummah, so that wives are able to "B" who they want to "B".

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What does that even mean? Is it because the husband might assume she's had prior sexual experience? Wives are not for fantasizing about? Let's say that a wife is super sexy/freaky...would that prevent him from having fleeting fantasies about other women and if so how many would admit to it?

Why worry about it, Deebs? As long as you're married and you're not violating any Islamic limits and it works for your marriage, who cares what someone on a forum thinks.