Before I married I was madly in lovee with someone for a couple years. Broke my heart to break with him. Hurt my feellings.
Shortly thereaafter, this guy invites my sister out on a date to see my very favorite band at the time. My sister said yes!! I was so mad.
More than mad. Hurt. Very hurt. I mean someone so important to me wants to date my sister later?
Ouch. That really hurt.
Especially when she agreed to go.
How could she? My very own sister?
I decided then that this guy wasn't worth my heartbreak. And I didn't think that highly of my sister either at the time. Not at all. Not something I would ever consider doing to my own sister.
Just something I wouldn't consider. As adorable as she is. Much prettier than I will ever be. A known fact.... but, how could your very own sister hurt you like that?
I mean OUCH!
Today I forgive and love her because I know it was for the best. Absoluely. But when I was very young, it hurt me, and made me wonder how people could be so inconstant and unloving.
Made me wonder what it is that makes one hurt another.
^ there is a danger of somthing similar happening here.
Any situation that presents a risk of you having impure thoughts about your brother-in-law should ring alarms.
this is a possible lifelong-situation.
anyhow the term 'love' shouldnt be thrown around so casually.
If bilaal is aware, as you say you all are, that his fiancee has 'thoughts' and 'feelings' about his brother -- and yet he is going ahead with it -- he isnt mature enough for marriage.
In my opinion u should marry Kashif. Look if u r given option to choose from one whom u love and the one who loves u, it is always wise to choose the later. its not my saying but the saying of more experienced.