A valid dying request

[kahtifah]

@Sehrysh

Pretty judgmental of you to say that if the kids and their families don’t give up six months of their lives and move to Pakistan that they are being selfish and haven’t the right to call their father their dad.

So questions for each and everyone here who thinks that the kids are being selfish:

1. How many of you would want to be with your parents during their last months and do khidmat for their parents?

2. How many of you PLUS your own families AND your siblings PLUS their families could pick up stakes and move to another country for six months to spend that time with the parent?

Added to that, you’re going to a country that is facing political turmoil and where the medical care is not as good as the father may receive here.

I’m sorry but he has Stage 4 Cancer and there is NO CURE. Also in the US there is a thing called the FMLA, Family Medical Leave Act, specially designed for this type of situation.

The sons should take time off of work and take their father to Pakistan, while the rest of the family stays behind. They should then consult the local hospitals in the Pakistan and decide the best possible care so that he is not in pain during his last days.

Oh and yes, I would leave everything behind to fulfill the last wishes of my parents.