After reading all the threads about in law
Problems in the life section, I’m left to wonder…is there any girl
Here who actually Gets Along with her in laws? And has a Good Relationship with them? And Actually Considers them Family?
Just Curious.
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My SIL.
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Yes I get along very well. And yes I do consider them my family. I have as many "issues" with my own parents too but if they are my family, so can my in laws.
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Hhhhmmm maybe that's what you think . :P I thought my sister
Too. She buys way more Stuff For Her Husbands sister than she does for me
:D
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why
are
you
torturing by
breaking
your response
in
multiple
lines.
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Yes I get along very well. And yes I do consider them my family. I have as many "issues" with my own parents too but if they are my family, so can my in laws.
Yes and I remember screen shot of your phone while you were talking to your mother in law...............:)
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Yes and I remember screen shot of your phone while you were talking to your mother in law...............:)
what was
the story? link
pleej.
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Yes and I remember screen shot of your phone while you were talking to your mother in law...............:)
Yes! Wow you remember!
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Ji:D
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I get along with my in-laws. I don't always agree with their point of view but my parents also do some things which I don't like.
Personally, I think that this respect, love we have is because we don't live together. Us living apart puts a little bit of a formality in our relationship, which works out well for both sides
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wow. classic picture of guppan having conversation with MIL for more than half an hour. :hehe:
kahan hain life 1 ki chokariyan, dekho niki say sabq lo. 
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Yes I get along with them....if getting along means no fighting. But considering them family? Well yeah my aunts and my cousins are my family too.
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I have great relationship with my inlawas. They are family to me and they treat me as their daughter/ sister too. My MIL is very loving and FIL is awesome. I talk to my SIL for hours like best friends and my BIL is a younger brother of mine.
Knock wood!
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Happens just as much in joint family setups amongst blood relatives as well imo.. the arguments and falling out are just more likely to be about land, money etc.
Not inevitable but when ppl get too involved in each others business it's not surprising there are problems..
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i have a mother-daughter relationship with my mil....she is so loving n caring....
as well as FIL....he's just like my dad....
i respect them exactly like i give respect to my own parents....
never fought with my own parents....
n never had any issues with them(inlaws)...
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Happens just as much in joint family setups amongst blood relatives as well imo.. the arguments and falling out are just more likely to be about land, money etc.
Not inevitable but when ppl get too involved in each others business it's not surprising there are problems..
Also, inlaws who try to control every move of their bahus and treat them as crap, ruin everything.
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My in-laws are amazing people. I haven't had a chance to be with them after the wedding as I moved to a different country right after....but I love them. My SIL has a very loving relationship with them as she's also stayed with them for a couple years. And they both treat each other like their parents/daughter. Which is why I'd love to get to know them even more.
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If by getting along means no conflict at all then you are probably bound for disappointment but if that means, a normal relationship with conflicts, care, love then you will find many.
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If you hold resentment in any relationship it is bound to become sour. You can't hold on to anger and bitterness and still have harmonious relationship. If girls actually see their in laws as family they won't get all worked up on what Mil or FIL said.
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If you hold resentment in any relationship it is bound to become sour. You can't hold on to anger and bitterness and still have harmonious relationship. If girls actually see their in laws as family they won't get all worked up on what Mil or FIL said.
The resentment can't be there for no valid reason unless one is a hater by birth. Once you become an adult you start finding it hard living with your own mom or sister....every woman needs her privacy and a little place of her own to execute her choices, as soon as you try to take away that from her she'll hate you for it. I hope I won't make these mistakes with my boys and their families.