Hello all.
I’m looking forward for your valuable suggestions in my situation.
I and this guy love each other for the last 2 years.The problem is that his parents are not willing to approve of our relationship,though he’s tried his level best to make them agree.
Now this guy asks me that will i marry him if he comes forward to marry me without his parents’ consent?I know since his parents are not agreeing,so my parents too won’t approve of this relationship because of that.
What should be done?
Please suggest.
Dont go into a marriage without both of your parents blessings.
Initially it might be all fun, but when you have babies, have problems, on eid and on birthdays and as time goes by you will really feel it and may regret your decision.
He needs to try and convince his parents.
How old are you? what are the reasons his parents are not agreeing to it?
Prehaps you and your partner can think of getting both your parents together eg you could all go out to dinner or something?
But don't give up at all! Hopefully, things will work out but they will take some time in your case. Get him to convince his parents to meet yours somehow.
Iggle is right. Just try to get ur parents together so that they can meet each other.
Dont go into a marriage without both of your parents blessings. At the beginning it would be fine but then you could get a lot of problems.
woh larka apne parents ko zaida time keh liye khafa nahi kar sakta.
any man who s willing 2 marry his love without parents consent is worth all that..
if he s sensible, mature , is capable of providing 4 u ,go ahead wht r u waitin 4???????
the coolest part is that once he s married without tha parents thay wudnt bother u guys that much , no frequent visits , no undue interference.
any man who s willing 2 marry his love without parents consent is worth all that..
if he s sensible, mature , is capable of providing 4 u ,go ahead wht r u waitin 4???????
the coolest part is that once he s married without tha parents thay wudnt bother u guys that much , no frequent visits , no undue interference.
coccoo, I don't agree with you. It's definitely admirable that he's willing to go ahead without his parents consent, but alvena is right.. after a while, he might start asking himself if it was worth it. He got the girl he loves but he lost his parents and family.
IMO you shouldn't go behind the parents in this case. Try to get them to meet. If you think about it, this can still be an "arranged" marriage if his parents bring the rishta over to your parents.. and start the whole process. The only difference is that you guys like each other.
Rose what you have is very rare. Any guy that can stand up to his parents and marry the love of his life despite not having their blessing (for the stupidist reason ever) is a REAL MAN. Go for it. His parents will eventually accept it...with time (even if it takes a few years).
