A situation

[TLK]

Re: A situation

then I think you should say no. If he is 25, he is probably not on his feet .. you just cannot take that risk of marrying someone who is not stable in life and may not have any family support because of his decsion

[coccoo]

@Bebo_Shah

coccoo, I don't agree with you. It's definitely admirable that he's willing to go ahead without his parents consent, but alvena is right.. after a while, he might start asking himself if it was worth it. He got the girl he loves but he lost his parents and family.

IMO you shouldn't go behind the parents in this case. Try to get them to meet. If you think about it, this can still be an "arranged" marriage if his parents bring the rishta over to your parents.. and start the whole process. The only difference is that you guys like each other.

c mon it s not possible 4 him 2 leave the parents 4good , neither wud the parents do that, blood ties r vv strong............ both parties wud com around afta a few months .

[diwana]

@rose_petal

Hello all.
I’m looking forward for your valuable suggestions in my situation.
I and this guy love each other for the last 2 years.The problem is that his parents are not willing to approve of our relationship,though he’s tried his level best to make them agree.
Now this guy asks me that will i marry him if he comes forward to marry me without his parents’ consent?I know since his parents are not agreeing,so my parents too won’t approve of this relationship because of that.
What should be done?
Please suggest.

If you both are willing to take the difficulties/complications together without having parents to go along with you then it is fine. But it does not seem to be a good decision.

[Straight_up]

Re: A situation

I think he needs to keep telling his parents that he will marry you and that's that - eventually they'll give in and the wedding will happen. Besides, he's only 25 so he can afford to spend some time convincing his parents.

My whole take on the issue is - I'd never let go of someone if they were giving it their best shot.

[desigirl786]

Re: A situation

If your asking this question, then you have some doubts and are uncertain about marrying him. You cannot deny that part.

Secondly, you should not enter into something as big as marriage without the blessings of parents. From what I have seen, those relationships don't last very long and ultimately fail. Be mature about this and get your parents involved more effectively. This is your life, its not a joke.