A Shameless Practice: Divulging Bedroom Secrets

[Mirch]

Re: A Shameless Practice: Divulging Bedroom Secrets

@Curious Lady

I have a couple of things to say:

1. Human beings’ curiosity about sexuality has been around ever since civilizations decided to consider it an evil and shove it away. Western cultures are surely more open about it, but they can’t be blamed for its existence in Eastern cultures.

2. Secondly, I agree that talking about (any) personal issues with others, without SO’s permission is morally wrong. However, talking to your friends about it, in my opinion, shouldn’t be an issue. You talk to your friends about everything else, why is sex so special that you shouldn’t? I have found that these (respectable) conversations usually take place among sexually experienced people or between experienced and curious people. As long as it respects their partner, I don’t see an issue with such conversations.

3. The details that people go in should depend on how comfortable the friends are and how comfortable the partner is to know that they/their sexual relationship is being discussed.

You kept religion completely out of you POV. Read the first post again. OP has many references to religion.
Islamic etiquette dictate that one can discuss sex life with therapist or with mufti for seeking fatwa only.