Do not play the religion card. Its' not a matter of ideological differences. Certain things are appalling no matter what religion or culture and considering a wife and child replaceable is one of them.
A guy who is good to his parents isn't dumb but one who considers his wife and child replaceable is and much more.
Someone who believes the above and uses faith to back it up is sadly misguided or has a heart of stone. Yes, parents are important, but our religion also tells us to treat our wife and kids with kindness.
A thesis on religious history and blah blah (as you put it) isn't necessary, it's really quite simple--you treat both with love and respect. The second you start to think one can be replaced, you lose respect and love for that person.
Sad.
I don't get it. Why ur tone is THAT harsh??? Have i offended you or anything. If not then please!!!!
As i said to Mamoof before i quoted you... i knew i would be thought as naive...
And no matter what logic i could have thrown at you guys, it would have back tracked to my thinking and would have been easier for guys like YOU to label me with what ever barbaric tag you would be happy to tag with.
If its with that WORD replaceable (and that word was used in context with the example, of sinking boat... and if u can't get it now, u will never...sorry), well, wife and kids are... no matter how u look... divorces deaths and new marriages and e.t.c... but THAT does not take away from the fact that u still have to be kind and protective of ur family... back track to my quote if u may.
But u can't replace Moms... u can't replace ur dad... and religiously speaking (and for some reason I find it insulting that some would take any thing into account and not something religious even if its the pinnacle of standards and the way we should live and aspire to live) U are not even allowed to say an 'UFF' in disagreement to your parents.... and e.t.c.
Anyways... i would like you people to take things rationally and not jump onto conclusions. Thank you.