A Sad Situation...

I just heard that one of my uncles, who has been married for 8 years now, has two kids, one recently a year ago…his wife while visiting pakistan, has ran away with some other guy.

Ok this kinda stuff happens, but the thing is, its a shock because no one ever expected her to that. She was SO family oriented, there were no problems from what anyone could see. She got along with everyone VERY WELL, even me!

I am in a state of shock as I can’t believe a woman could do that, and leave her kids behind. Only a heartless person can do that, only a devil IMHO!

Apparently she had been dealing with some guy, before her marriage, and I can’t believe she chose to opt out of this marriage now.

But how, and why? Why now? Why put everyone in this deception for all these years?

She was never a problem, everyone loved her, she was so nice! how all of a sudden did she leave! that too her kids small lil kids!

What changes a person? What causes them to do this???!

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whoa.. i don't know what to say. it is indeed a sad situation. i can't believe a woman can do that and that too after having 2 kids too!

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Waiting for a response from those guppans who claim that all men are the same and who think women cannot do such things.

PS - A sad situation indeed bro. I cannot even imagine what the kids will think when they hear about their mother.

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that is very sad , poor kids

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haw haye. Aj kal diaN buddiaN ko kiya ho gya hay aakhir? Allah maafi, very sad story indeed.

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Shez actually young, around 26-27 I believe...Her 1 year old was sitting on the stairs crying as she ran away in the morning.

I just cant come around to accepting that all this is true, I can't believe it. Im speechless, No one saw this coming, so sudden.

I cant even tell you whats going through the husband's mind, he just left for pakistan, to get his kids.

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that is very sad, poor other guy.

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really! poor other guy as well...he cant possibly be happy with a women like that! I am almost positive he is gonna leave her eventually....what man would want a woman who left her family like this!

anyway...I am so sorry to hear about this crescent!

I **CAN **believe that a woman is capable of leaving her husband like this....but for a woman to leave her innocent children behind...her flesh and blood...the children that she carried for 9 months in her womb....IT'S UNTHINKABLE!! Your uncle is better off without her and so are his kids.

I'll keep your uncle and his kids in my duas. Such a sad story! :(

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:chai: that is sad :frowning:

She must be very heartless to have left her children like that, i know some mothers wont even let their kids out of their sights.

May Allah give strength to ur uncle and those kids who have now got to suffer because of one womans mistake those poor kids now have to live with out a mother.

people like that will never be able to live happy, i guarantee she’ll be back :chai:

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inshAllah…oneday soon they will have a mother…a REAL mother! just because she is their biological mother doesnt make her a mother.

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^ exactly

for women like that i wish she cries all her life for leaving them poor kids :naraz:

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she will…when the man she left them for…leaves her! and believe me he will.

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:chai: yeah that happens too

they always find somone better thats why i said she’ll be back :vivo:

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woa. :( this is really sad. what about the children? and the father, too. my gosh. that's just scary.

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i don't understand ppl like that. I mean if you wanted to do such a thing, should've done it before marrying and having kids. Once you are married, just follow it through caz your spouse did not force you into the marriage and shouldn't be punished for your parents' mistake.

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^ Exactly what I'm wondering :(
Why now?

And jeez, on top of that, her "bf" threaten to kill her husband if he did something to get her back or w/e.

Well hez in pak rite now, dunno whts guna happen now!

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he better not take her back!!

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I can understand her leaving her husband if the marriage was arranged and probably against her will,:lifey: but leaving her kids…:no:

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That's sad..... but she was only a kid herself when she married (age 19)... not saying that what she did was right or justified at all, but still... how can one make a proper decision of who to spend thie rlife w. at such a young age.. :(

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ok thats sad:naak: