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That is a really sad situation How can she leave her kids ?
This thread should be in Life 1 forum because it is serious thread
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you can understand?
she has a mouth and a pair of legs doesnt she? She could have used her mouth to say NO and her legs to walk/run away before or during the nikkah day. Instead she chose to run away NOW years later!!! there is no excuse for that!!
There are many girls that get married at a young age and they are happy.
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Its an opportunity for your uncle to find someone better.
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Amazing! What makes you say that she 'ran away'? If there was no problem between her and her husband and her married life was good, how can you say that she 'ran away'? Why not thought of other options?
I mean, when my cousin was murdered in pakistan, the story which was published in the newspaper was that he had committed suicide. His family was forced to release this statment because they received threatening calls from his murderers that they would kill other members of the family too.
Anything is possible in pakistan. If she wanted to run away, she could have done so wherever she was and not when she went to Pakistan.
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I never thought that a person can go to these extremes of selfishness. Leaving your kids and husband behind like that, after 8 years of apparently happy marriage? And that for a Gunda type aadmi who threatens to kill her husband? I really feel for that guy and of course for the kids as well and hope that Allah will have a positive future ahead for them.
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It's hard to believe that a mother could leave her kids behind but 'running away' with another guy especially when as per you, they were living a happy married life and that she was popular with everyone. Something is not right here.
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Where in the world 19 year old is considered a KID ??? 
Wake up woman !
I agree with her. some detail might be missing
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Crescent,
I think its not nice to discuss personal issues on the net, specially when the person is not here and he / she may not approve this type of publicity...
To share my thought... I would say every action has some reaction... you need to show both sides of the picture before we make some comments... but yes this is sad, ...
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Well im not mentioning any names, it could very well be a story out of a newspaper, without any finger pointing.
But I wanted to just comprehend the fact that there is a possibility for love to make us that blind?
Nothing is fishy here, I gave all the details, the only thing missing is that She was caught with guys before, like guys were calling at her house and stuff, especially this guy i believe, and she apologized and promised she wouldn't deal with him ever again, he was just this past love prior to their marriage.
The Guy then forgave her, and she was living perfectly amongst us. Ok people who dont get along or are nto happy in their marriage, are B*tchy, they show their lack of interest in the marriage. However, she didn't she showed devotion, interest, care and love for this family. In the end it was all a deception.
She will feel for her kids and her lost life...thats for sure..right now, love blinds her.
The only problem is probably that the age difference was 10 years, but he was well set and young looking to make it happen.
Just still trying to understand, HOW can she leave...her husband ok, but her KIDS?
I know so many girls who've made sacrifices and accepted whats given to them, and made the best of it...thats what most people do....but why can't she...its mind boggling.
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poor kids :(
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Omg Im sooo sorry to hear that ...I cannot imagine how she could leave her kids...let alone a 12 month old baby :(...I feel so bad for the kids...May Allah do what is best for them
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yes please keep my family in your prayers! JazakAllah
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:O
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love can make one very selfish.
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who knows her side of story.........maybe the situation wus sumfin else and depicted frm the hubby's side as sumfin else cuz no mother would leave her kids jus fer her love...
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^ I'm well aware of the hubby's side, and nothing is of that sort.
Think about this, even if it was from the hubby's side, would you still leave your kids? That tells alot.
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who knows her side of story.........maybe the situation wus sumfin else and depicted frm the hubby's side as sumfin else cuz no mother would leave her kids jus fer her love...
either way....what mother would leave her kids like that?
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Everything happens for the best.
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Horrible women. Anybody who can just leave her kids...it's very sad. Those type of women will get what htey deserve later on in life....