Your post amazes me. Sure there are bad fish everywhere. No place is free from them but.......... how about you try to deal with people outside of your family / community for a change. I am certain that that would sure do you some good.
holy moly, i would suggest you keep low profile while in Pakistan. jealousy prevails in this society too much. for instance, your colleagues would be smiling and at the same time cutting you from behind. Same with family members.....