Re: A rishta dilemma.
Sorry to go off topic but… that is totally uncalled for, perhaps you share that snobby attitude. But if a girl has lived in the US or abroad all her life, she has a completely different mentality than those living in Pakistan. And secondly, girls have a right to worry if the men they are marrying are marrying them for their visa. Last but not least, assume the guy comes to the US, it may take him a while to get financially settled, which can take several years and even after that there is no guarantee he will be able to provide for his family. This has absolutely nothing to do with “class snobs”