its cuz they dont have to get into the argument of “shadi kab karo gi… umaar guzar rahi hai… studies baad main karna… pehla shadi kar lo… phir jo bi karna hova karti rehna”
after divorce its diff… no one really force u into shadi and u have plenty of time to “develop urself as a person” heck… u have to do something to kill time
nahi ?