A question from all of you.

[ALIREZA1]

Re: A question from all of you.

@whiterice

Not this white girl, or any white girl I know.

It’s your MIL and husband’s responsibility to worry about your FIL and his loneliness. It’s seems they are outsourcing this job to you.

You are an adult. A married woman. You need to choose if you are ok with filling this role for your inlaws or not. That’s the only power you have. Stay and deal with the ridiculous demands or leave and start a new life. While I hope your inlaws see the error of their ways and your husband matures- you have zero control over that.

Yeah I know someone white people like that also, my assistants mom was a druggie, doesn’t work or do chores but still no one cooks for her. Her mom became homeless and asked my assistant to take her in but my assistant told her that she will have to cook and clean to earn her keep. Do you have a job, do housework do gardening or have hobbies? I am talking about life in the west for average people. Everyone is required to contribute. My kids had jobs at 14, are competing in sports and cook and clean. I don’t think any sane man here will marry a whiner who has absolutely nothing to offer. For someone to loaf around and complain that they don’t enjoy the food cooked for them is insane.