Re: A question for the ladies
awww bechari mard zaat! *gives few napkins.
What’s sad and pathetic is few desi guys would make sure even if girl is fully covered she gets raped I am sorry gang raped that’s how cases like Mukthar mai appeared.
Not only that when this another woman went to the jail to get her husband released – even she became a victim of gang rape. Not on that one of those men made sure they would fill her mouth with urine. When she decided she will raise her voice she was forced from her house to leave. What’s amazing is this that sister’s got divorced too since they were related with sonia naz.
Let me remind you these above two cases aren’t the only one. I can guarantee you go to any police station of Pakistan there are more cases of rape then robbery. Most of these are in little gao [villages] or small areas where there aren’t that many people and in gao/pind woman cover their heads.
I am freaking sick and tried of those men who are seeking sympathy from us women-when they have raped more than one woman either physically or emotionally.
I am dying to hear a news “a man was raped by a woman”. When will this appear? At that very moment may be that man can explain how horrible and traumatize his life has become.
Why do I avoid talking to desi men? You walk down Jackson heights [New York] you will hear guys whistling at girls and go “ sexy baby”, you will even find some uncle doing the same thing, standing on the street and cursing, if a girl who isn’t wearing a duppata passes by “kia maal hai yaar” starring at her boobs. A girl who happens to be a little sanwali a song goes “amerika ke naa japaan hai hum to hain dewane Pakistani ke… sanwali saaloni se mehbooba”- while that girl is with her parents. Going to Pakistani parade or mela is asking for a nightmare. Its Pakistan’s day if I want to wear green and white its my choice but no you will have guys come close by and go “ I wish I could have that Pakistan ka jhanda”. Those parades and melas have literally become a arena for guys to hit on girls. In high school goodness they had nothing better to do but to go after girls. This aunty I know went to find a bride for her son, she seleted the girl they were going to start the preparation then all of a sudden threat calls started to come – “that girl is mine leave her alone otherwise your son will be killed”. They asked the girl and her parents they had no idea what was going on I am sure there is something from the girl side in this situation as well ] but to act like a pure gunda?
When was the last time you heard some girl did above of the things. We don’t go around and go “wow kia lagta hai”- “gosh his butt is so hot”- “maan look at those shoulders those eyes “ blah and blah.
I never claimed I don’t talk to desi men I do. I am extra careful and yeah most of the time I do avoid them. Unfortunately
And all these guys who called us [woman] ignorant, arrogant etc- How would you feel your daughter talks to a Desi guy? Wouldn’t you be extra careful to make sure he is not doing any tak jak? Would you be asking her some extra question regarding that particular friend? And you guys I have another question for you folks. I am sure you would like to pay a little extra attention to all the male friends of your wife who happened to be desi? Didn’t you?
It’s very nice to sit behind a pc and claim all woman are nuts well at least the one who are here. They have no clue how to respect men they think all of them are alike. Five fingers are not equal you are right BUT THEY ARE ON THE SAME HAND.
Stop crying guys- you folks have done nasty things in the past which has left sour feelings. Unfortunately when we get to know you we do change our thinking.
There are very few desi guys that i am friends with and let me tell you they are the most coolest people ever. i can even talk to them as if i am talking to another girl. There are few male guppies that i respect alot and i can carry a good conversation with them.