A question for the ladies

Grumpy · March 11, 2006, 4:49pm

Why do you avoid desi guys in public places? You would prefer talking to gorays then with desis. I think most guys can attest to this. If you go up to a desan and ask a simple question like where is the following resturant and you get a cold shoulder and attitude like you are hitting on Princess Diana herself.

To add why do you think so lowly of desi men?

Muslim_Queen · March 11, 2006, 5:03pm

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The above do not apply to me.

fghd · March 11, 2006, 5:11pm

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LOL,

No one dare to approach me…sooo scary :roman:

parissenoor · March 11, 2006, 5:22pm

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males are probably thinking that talking to a hijabi is offending her…and out of respect for u, do not appraoch u

ps, when i was a hijabi, only guys asking my dad’s phone number would appraoch me;)

Grumpy · March 11, 2006, 5:22pm

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No my question is why DO you women avoid desi men in public?

Grumpy · March 11, 2006, 5:23pm

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Fine shine, it doesn’t apply to you.

parissenoor · March 11, 2006, 5:24pm

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not really desi, but moslty guys wearing beard..or with a quite religious outlook, cause of gender segration and out of respect...as we don't know if that guy is or against talking to stranger females...than in doubt i prefer to talk to a gora...cause i'm sure he won't mind:D

the cold shower attitude, is not to show friendship...cause female/male friendship is not allowed in some desi/muslim families..so when i talk to a stranger, as i don't know if he is ok or not for friendships with opposite gender..i show distance...out of respect

Grumpy · March 11, 2006, 5:26pm

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Wow…ironic.

diya17 · March 11, 2006, 5:36pm

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because the way most of the desi guys look at us...its creepy/and awkward...i live in a samll town there are no desis there..so i have to hang out with white/blak ppl...but everytime i go to toronto i get hit on by desi guys/perverted men...this has happened soo many times so now i have a thing for giving desi ppl dirty looks..lol

sidz_angel · March 11, 2006, 5:49pm

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i just plain avoid talking to pple in the street as much as possible
i get randoms asking time or directions which is no prob
i even find gorey avoid asking me and wil ask another gora
desi guys dont bother me much cos i am in hijab

fghd · March 11, 2006, 5:59pm

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Its fun when people ask you directions on a street…I usually tell them wrong directions…thats wat they get for asking me

sidz_angel · March 11, 2006, 6:06pm

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i try and give the right direction but i get it wrong n e way

paki_french_princez · March 11, 2006, 6:37pm

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lol dats exactly wot i do
once sum1 asked me to come in da car 4 directions and i tld him to F** off or else ill kick da **** out of him:mad: n i started swearing my head off
he woz shocked he said no girl has ever behaved lyk dat wid him
and i woz one of those “brutal” galz:confused:
i tld him to do one
then i walked off

dope · March 11, 2006, 8:11pm

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Ms. Bombastic???

paki_french_princez · March 11, 2006, 8:46pm

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hun?

danial · March 11, 2006, 9:05pm

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lol

diya17 · March 11, 2006, 9:08pm

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LMAO…haahahaa you are my new hero!!!

Grumpy · March 11, 2006, 9:28pm

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Wow. Being rude, ill mannered is now a good thing. If some desi guy did that to you, you would start a thread on it saying desi men are so rude. Hypocritical and ignorant.

nia_khan · March 11, 2006, 10:06pm

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well!

I will have no problem admitting it i do. I literally feel a desi/arabi guy is doing nothing better but checking me out and will try every single technique of "line marying".

They got gandi nazrein and a woman knows when a guy is scanning her.

I so wish guys wont think like that but i cannot stop that. You start talking to them with a smile they think larki hansi matlab pasi.

On the other hand i do have gora friends we even call each other every now and then.

not saying all the guys are like that... do have some desi friends as well but very few are good rest... badtameez

Sadiyah · March 11, 2006, 10:11pm

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To answer your question, I don't avoid desi guys at all. I talk to them just as much I'd talk to non-desis. If anything I end up talking more to desis because of the commonalities we have.

As for thinking low of desi guys, I don't generally think low of desi guys. However, sometimes you can't help it think as such, especially when you have desi males making some rather traumatic confessions on GS. Yes, the traumatic confessions have affected me to a great extent.