A question for Muslims who feel they need to conform to perceived expectations

[Muzna]

Re: A question for Muslims who feel they need to conform to perceived expectations

@queen_24

No, that’s not what I am suggesting. What I am saying is, respect everyone, everyone’s religion, their customs, their traditions, festive, but yes, IF they celebrate your occasion with you, you should treat back the same. IF they don’t, why do you need to?

Actually…that is exactly what you are saying. Read your own post.
And I vehemently disagree with you on this.

I don’t think that you should have to wait for them to celebrate your occasion with you before you treat them back the same.

I think one should not be afraid to take the first step. Wait for reciprocity and then decide whether or not to take the next.