Re: A question for Muslims who feel they need to conform to perceived expectations
Hindustan was not a Kaafir country. Hindustan divided in two parts and now it is India and Pakistan. Before the division, the entire nation was one and Muslims and Hindus, both were living in there. I don’t know why is it difficult for you to understand that, No, Sharara Gharara is not a Hindu/Kafir dress code. And by the way, who said, Pakistani Culture is Hijaab and Abaya?? Nowhere in Quran it is mentioned to wear Hijab and Abaya but has been said, “apni orhniyan neechay karo”. According to me, sharara gharara to even shalwar qameez aur abaya se bhi zada dheela hota hay. Iske pehenne main koi mumaniyat nahin hay.
Also, NO, I did NOT married a British Native either. Me and my husband both are Pakistani. We fell in love in Pakistan. We got married in Pakistan. It is true that he spent almost a decade in west, but at the time of our marriage, he had already come back and settled in Pakistan. It’s just because the economic situation of Pakistan that lead him to move back to UK.
I am very disappointed to tell that even after telling you again and again that my intention here is not about abc vs xyz, yet again and again, you are bringing it in the discussion, grouping and saying, raising your kids with OURS, living next to US… etc.
This is not me who is PLAYING the vs game. The minute you understand my intention and point, I don’t think even you would want to proceed this baseless discussion any further.
This is not about Pakistan vs any XYZ country(at least to me)!! this is about Muslims. & tum aur main dunya ke kisi bhi konay main rahain, we will always belong to the same religion, so I would politely request that ye You and We ka chakkar choro, lets discuss it being one Muslim nation.. 