If you were given another chance would you marry or stay single? Do you regret getting married?
Well this is quite difficult question.. Those who are happy they will go for second chance.. those who are disturbed and walking on thin rope like me.. they will say no...its a nightmare..please..take the time back...
Thats why wise people say that ' Jo khay woh bee pichtaay ..jo na khay woh bee pichtaay'
Thank you..this is my personal experience..
Thats truly enviable Maddy!
^Indeed 
Madhanee God has truly blessed you... keep me in your prayers
When I was single, travelling a lot, had more money than I could spend and a very active social life I thought life couldn't get any better. I got married and it did...mashallah well for me anyway...dunno about the misses :D
You guys are very lucky to have found good wives. A woman can make your life a living hell. Specially if you are a nice guy like myself. :D
FG tum tau rehne hee dau na! You have these stupid preconcieved notions that no woman can be good for you, and that she will make ur life a living hell, blabla this and blabla that! Just fuhgerrabouchu!
and now we know both Madhanee's and Thap's wives read this board..
good thread.
singles are often under an illusion that once they get married to the woman of their dreams life would take a sudden turn heavenbound making everything perfect and all...does that really happen...? many don't even get married to the woman of their dreams...so is looking forward to gettin married and settling down worth it...? do ppl actually settle down once theyre married...? and those who die single, do they never get an opportunity to settle down...? life seems to be risky business...
Re: A Question for Married Men
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If you were given another chance would you marry or stay single? Do you regret getting married?
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I would remarry if I could marry the same person.
I dont regret getting married, early on in the marriage sometimes I would get overwhelmed by the additional responsibility because I got married right when i finished B school and had to adjust to a new city, new routine with work and new responsibilities as a husband. Did not regret it then and do not regret it now.
If i was single right now, yes I may have more money (or maybe not because part of the growth in my career has been due to wifeys support) and more freedom, even though I have never felt I cant do anything that I wanted to do, my lifestyle may have been different in terms that I would only be responsible for myself (and thats not true really either because I still have obligations and responsibilities to my family)... but I would not have her in my life. That would not be good.
P.S. yes BabaG my wife reads the forums too, she used to post as well until I paid off Xtreme to ban her :)
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Don't know about Thap, but I suspect, not only does she read this board, but also tell him what to write.
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No stupid...if she was telling him what to write he would generally make more sense than he usually does :D
Madhanee, that’s wonderful. I was once watching this episode of Oprah where this couple had been married for around 25 years. They kept their marriage alive and healthy by renewing their vows every year in a different, exotic location each time. Just something to remind them of how much they love each other. Awww …
mehnaz Q, do u have to renew your vows at a new exotic place each year to keep the relationship fresh and alive?
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mehnaz Q, do u have to renew your vows at a new exotic place each year to keep the relationship fresh and alive?
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Of course not. It's just nice to renew it ... even if it is every 20 years! Then again, I'm not married, so what do I know? :D
Where are the rest of the replies? 
Guys, please stop flooding.
Shinoo, they've been removed coz they were irrelevant to the topic.
I've been married for over 4 years now and I can't say that I have regretted a single day. God has blessed me with a wife who is my best friend and I can't see my life without her. In fact, if I ever spend time apart from her, it makes me realize how important she is to me. So to answer your question, yes, if given another chance, I will not hesitate for a second.
Maddy, we are thinking of doing something similar to renewing vows on our 5th anniversary, nothing official, just a nice getaway, somewhere in Europe probably.
Cheers!
way too early for me to answer..but inshallah i won't have any regrets
You guys have revived my faith in marriage! Honestly. I was beginning to think maybe all of u were disillusioned with ur marraiges and thus didn't reply to Irems thread abou why marry a few weeks ago!