Would you be okay with it if your wife/fiancee (girlfriends are an exception) had a facebook account…I’m sure most of u will be. BUT the ones that wouldnt be happy about your wife/fiancee having a facebook account or saying have it but don’t post pics. Please state your reason or why you think any guy would tell his fiancee/wife that? Would that be considered possessiveness?
(girls can answer if they’ve been through the same situation)
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My wife has a facebook account and she posts her pictures on it as well. In fact, I don't post many pictures (excepter my profile pictures) but she has many albums and would post pictures of any event to share with her family and friends. She is careful when it comes to adding people. Most of the people on her account are family members and school friends. She has only a few selective guppans.
Bottom line: I am okay with her having an account and sharing pictures.
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I think a guy would only tell his wife/fiance not to post her pics on facebook if she has added people that she doesnt know (ie, e-friends, strangers). If this is the case then I dont see anything wrong with him asking her to not post pics.
No I dont think it means he is being possessive. He just wants her to play it safe...lot of crazy people in this world and we dont know what they are capable of doing.
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agree with both Shikra and Angel Eyes.
I have a facebook acount and my hubby just asked me to becareful with the pics I post.. but im quite careful about adding people as friends. I only have friends (and community in melbourne) and family on my list... so its pretty safe... unless some friend or family starts distributing pics.. hmm
Would you be okay with it if your wife/fiancee (girlfriends are an exception) had a facebook account....I'm sure most of u will be. BUT the ones that wouldnt be happy about your wife/fiancee having a facebook account or saying have it but don't post pics. Please state your reason or why you think any guy would tell his fiancee/wife that? *Would that be considered possessiveness? *
(girls can answer if they've been through the same situation)
YES it would!
I have a facebook account, but my husband does not want me to post my pictures on it. yes its true he's very possessive.
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My husband and I have a facebook account that has cobwebs and trees growing out of it. I don't think we'd be too comfortable with letting anyone see our pics, so if we did go on, it would have a very selected viewership. It's not about being possessive, but why?
I would be perfectly be okay with her having a facebook or myspace or whatever the hell is out there profile but the catch is:
It better not have any friends list or sweet talk on walls crap. :D
phir kya faida…
its ok if its family.
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us guys r so nice to u women, we let u have ur own facebook account man!! and u can even put ur pics on them!! 
praise the lordddda! all hail mankind!
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Account yes, pics no as I don't post my pics.
I have a question. Why would you be reluctant to have strangers see pictures of your wife/fiancee in the first place?
The only reason that comes to my mind is that some people may be reluctant to have contact with "na-mehrams" (in other words, people they are not related to). But, if you were so religious, you wouldn't take pics at all right (last time I checked, pics were declared haram)?
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I don't let my wife touch the computer, in fact, I insist that she not use anything that needs electricity, women are too stupid to operate anything that complicated.
What the hell? For the most part I don't tell my wife how to behave because I trust her judgment and discretion. She's my wife, not my child.
I don't let my wife touch the computer, in fact, I insist that she not use anything that needs electricity, women are too stupid to operate anything that complicated.
What the hell? For the most part I don't tell my wife how to behave because I trust her judgment and discretion. She's my wife, not my child.
hehehehe i love this comment...and totally agree. I think the wife is an adult, and has discretion about what she feels is right/wrong, no need to "tell" her what to do.
Would you be okay with it if your wife/fiancee (girlfriends are an exception) had a facebook account....I'm sure most of u will be. BUT the ones that wouldnt be happy about your wife/fiancee having a facebook account or saying have it but don't post pics. Please state your reason or why you think any guy would tell his fiancee/wife that? Would that be considered possessiveness?
(girls can answer if they've been through the same situation)
possessiveness or not being able to trust your fiancee/wife. both are bad and destructive.
I don't let my wife touch the computer, in fact, I insist that she not use anything that needs electricity, women are too stupid to operate anything that complicated.
What the hell? For the most part I don't tell my wife how to behave because I trust her judgment and discretion. She's my wife, not my child.
nice
I don't let my wife touch the computer, in fact, I insist that she not use anything that needs electricity, women are too stupid to operate anything that complicated.
What the hell? For the most part I don't tell my wife how to behave because I trust her judgment and discretion. She's my wife, not my child.
lol
thats way she was given responsibility to take care of you. hehe j/k
I had myspace, facebook, etc. but deleted it because it's got a lot of memories your spouse might not enjoy hearing/seeing.
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my person and i had decided that we wouldn't make facebook accounts because we had something similar before and it caused a lot of problems. so one day, i suspected him of making an account because he got an e-mail that someone tagged pictures of him so i had a fight with him, saying "the only way someone can tag pictures of you, is if you have an account!!!" obviously, i was wrong. and the very next day someone convinced me to make a facebook by showing me my friends from elementary school, so i made one :p and then i let him make one too :D
What the hell? For the most part I don't tell my wife how to behave because I trust her judgment and discretion. She's my wife, not my child.
Bless you, its the trust that separates the men from the boys!