I had myspace, facebook, etc. but deleted it because it's got a lot of memories your spouse might not enjoy hearing/seeing.
come on, she would have bee proud of her hubbie being an ex-chickmagnet!
I have a question. Why would you be reluctant to have strangers see pictures of your wife/fiancee in the first place?
I tell you why
I talked about it earlier and can say that again ..
there are perverts out there, who pick pics of girls from public websites, sometimes photoshop them, or other times if girl is wearing anything close to revelaing her skin, take the picture as it is and post it on adult websites
or loosers who just claim things as "Pic of my ex-GF" and post a picture on semi-adult websites or forums ..
Why is it so neccessary to post pictures on social networking sites anyway? Our parents have a very successful social network, and they developed it without the aid of internet.
But if you have to, can you at least make it private?
I tell you why
I talked about it earlier and can say that again ..
there are perverts out there, who pick pics of girls from public websites, sometimes photoshop them, or other times if girl is wearing anything close to revelaing her skin, take the picture as it is and post it on adult websites
or loosers who just claim things as "Pic of my ex-GF" and post a picture on semi-adult websites or forums ..
Why is it so neccessary to post pictures on social networking sites anyway? Our parents have a very successful social network, and they developed it without the aid of internet.
But if you have to, can you at least make it private?
well said TLK....while growing up my mom used to tell my sisters and I this as well. I agree....strange people out there.
I had myspace, facebook, etc. but deleted it because it's got a lot of memories your spouse might not enjoy hearing/seeing.
I hear you my brother.
I have a question. Why would you be reluctant to have strangers see pictures of your wife/fiancee in the first place?
The only reason that comes to my mind is that some people may be reluctant to have contact with "na-mehrams" (in other words, people they are not related to). But, if you were so religious, you wouldn't take pics at all right (last time I checked, pics were declared haram)?
hmmm to be honest I asked him that and he said....he just doesnt want the pics to be open out there for people to view... according to him it's something very confidential and private that only certain people should view....He also thinks facebook makes you very open to the world even if you only have friends on who knows some of them might share pictures with others unknowingly
well said TLK....while growing up my mom used to tell my sisters and I this as well. I agree....strange people out there.
Angel eyes..... thank you so much!! you have pretty much answered my question. And some people are saying that it's a trust issue or he shouldnt be telling you what to do.....With that kind of behaviour why not stay single? Once you're committed to someone there are certain things you ask for and certain things you give in return...... there's no shame in listening to your husband or wife as long as it's reasonable and they've got a reason....no?
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I ahve a FB account. All of the people on my contact list are people I have known from workplaces I have worked at, school, uni, family etc.
I have profile pics up and I am tagged in some albums. Two of my cousins do no like the idea of me having any pics on there:smack: I know they mean well. I guess even people who do not know you, can see your profile pic by searching for you.
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You would only hide fb from your spouse if you have something to hide. If your spouse is having issues with you having a fb, then they will create issues with tons of other things aswell.
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i don’t trust my wife so i don’t mind if she posts her pictures on FB n share them with her friends n emenies. 
Angel eyes..... thank you so much!! you have pretty much answered my question. And some people are saying that it's a trust issue or he shouldnt be telling you what to do.....With that kind of behaviour why not stay single? Once you're committed to someone there are certain things you ask for and certain things you give in return...... there's no shame in listening to your husband or wife as long as it's reasonable and they've got a reason....no?
I agree with you completely.
It's all about give and take....if he has one simple request then abide by it because one day you may ask something of him and you'll want him to abide by that.
Asking you not to post your pics on FB isnt asking for much. If it doesnt bother you then just do...forget what others have to say about it.
y in the first place you wanna put ur pics out there.aint you suppose to keep them to urself then a friend of mine took this pic i was in it the next thing i know somehow there is this girl who have croped it n uploaded it on profile pic of hers n now ive asked my friend thou times how the hell it went to her but she doesnt know,it must be one of her friend's friend one word stalkers
hmmm well It wasn't that I wanted to post my pictures I was just curious why that was the first thing that came to his head.....Thanks for your input peeps
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My husband & I both have facebook...but he is barely on it...and i'm on it like 24/7 (almost) its not a big deal as long as u both trust each other...i post pixz on fb, but he just doesn't want me to post our veryyy personal pixz...uno other wise hez kool :)