Re: a Paradox
Edde what you mostly saw, in pak, was culture of big cities like karachi/lahore and Isd.
Karachi is the least conservative of all cities, guys even know if their sisters are being "friend" with boys.
Be mindfull in pakistan *"friendship" covers every thing including. holding hands, second base, third base, making-out and If you lucky enough and girl is lose enough, occasional sex.
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In other cites family values are still extremely strong. Protecting girls from boys is still some what girl's families business. So If you F--k around with a girl, don't be surprised if you get your a$$ shot!!!
In mush era Tv did play some part, now boys are more comfortable saying words like GF compare to 10 years ago.
other then that nothing major has changed.