Re: A Pakistani Girl
It’s definitely the way I wrote it and I can see how you’d receive it to be that.
I can assure you I had no intent to downplay your or your sisters experiences or anyones in particular (except maybe Reha 
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I am merely suggesting that from our experiences we can have positive or negative growth or both.
The women I talk about are the ones who have made negative decisions based on their experiences.
As you pointed out, I don’t know you. Or your sister. I dont know what experiences you’ve had and what you’ve taken from them. Any comment I’d make about it would be invalid anyway.