A Pakistani Girl

[Maula_Jatt]

Re: A Pakistani Girl

@Theorist

Well, I have just one thing to say to you. A woman is not born a woman, before she becomes a woman, she was a girl, before that she was a teenager, and before that she was a child. Same is said for a man. It is our experiences from childhood go adulthood that create who we become later in life. Like I said just because you encountered many drama queens doesn’t mean all women are.

about number 2. there is your assumption again. you are wrong.. How about women who work full time and pay all the bills still has inlaws with them who think their son does it all and is expected to say nothing! If she does, she is a horrible horrible person.

I agree. What has happened in a person’s life shapes them. I mean, what else would right?
However, that doesnt mean we need to be oblivious to our own faults.

Our experiences in the past are absolutely no excuse to behave how we do now. No matter how bad things are for a person, there is someone who has it worse. And yet the planet keeps on spinning. Nothing stops. Do you know what that means? Moving on is a very important part of life. Yes some people need help to get there; we all do at some point.
We shouldn’t excuse ourselves for the way we’ve turned out because of our experiences. We’ve been given an education so we can tell the difference. So we can look back at ourselves and say, wait, how I am is absolutely unacceptable and I need to change it. You shouldnt be a big person for being able to do that.

A woman who works full time(and her hubby too), pays all the bills, has in laws with her and is expected to say nothing doesnt exist. Going by what I’ve heard on here, the majority, if not all of the money earned by the woman is kept by the woman. She doesnt contribute BECAUSE THIS IS THE ONE TIME SHE DOESNT FORGET HER ISLAMIC ENTITLEMENTS. Women are not forced by Islam, and it seems like thats enough for you gals to pocket your money.

For situations where the above mentioned DOES occur, it really depends on her situation. What you have said there (I’ve highlighted it for you to be specific), isnt how black and white it always is.
What man wont say that a woman who works full time, pays all the bills, takes care of the house and is still mistreated, is nothing short of a warrior goddess. But that’s not always how simple it is. I’m not gonna make a judgement after being presented SUCH a narrow view.