A Pakistani Girl

[Maula_Jatt]

Re: A Pakistani Girl

@Reha

**We understand a whole lot but if a man’s only reaction is call women drama queens…then its pointless to deal with such men in the first place. Being practical means having an open mind and not shooting a woman down just because she’s a woman and must not know a thing.

Who are you kidding? **

That’s not our only reaction. It’s our reaction for things that are storms in teacups.

But Reha a lot of issues that you claim are big issues are infact childish petty things.

I’ve met smart, intelligent and powerful women. You should see them handle issues. Nothing ever catches them off guard.

A percentage of the women on here are not smart, intelligent, or powerful.

Just take a look at life1. And for a more insightful example, your own responses. You’ve failed to (ever) present any sort of profound argument. It’s always “men don’t understand”.

@Theorist

wow! Just Wow! Way to play down the real issues women deal with. Tell me the solution for an 8 year old girl who gets molested and is ashamed to share this with anyone. She has been threatened so naturally as a child she does what she thinks is best. Tell me the solution for being rejected for being a girl child then you grow up hearing all sort of crap from grandparents to everyone else in the world how her parents need a boy child for their old age. Tell me the solution for a 15 year old who gets bullied in school and when she fights back, she gets called names.** Please tell me the solution for a woman who got her education, got a career only to later get married and help the husband fulfill his role of a son.** Again, her parents get nothing out any of it because she has nothing left to give. If she complains, she is a bad wife. If she gets divorced, she is untouchable. Do tell me if these are made up issues or if any of these can be resolved by the girl/woman who is dealing with it first hand.

easy to shrug it off saying it is all in our head than actually dealing with the problems. You may have had to deal with a lot of drama queens but not every woman who shares her problems is a drama queen.

I’m glad that the examples you use to counter me are little girls in their teen.

Now pay attention cuz you clearly werent the first time.

1. Look at how many times I say ‘some women’. Look at how many times you say ‘some men’, or something similar. It’s pretty darn obvious my post wasnt directed at all women. Certainly not teenager girls. Please dont use them as a shield.

2. Look at how many times I said WOMEN. Not a girl of 8 years old. Not a girl of 15 years old. As for the woman who gave up her career, you’re not asking a problem. Shes a wife who now stays home to take care of her kids. You’re asking for a solution. I’m asking whats the problem in this scenario? LOL see. there you go. You found a problem where there is none. Woman.

3. Please do not insinuate that I group the problem of little girls with grown women. I find that insulting. If you continue to do so I will have to respond very harshly as I am requesting you now to not continue. The fact that you grouped them together tells me a lot about you.

4. Again, nowhere am I downplaying the importance of issues affecting women, no. I’m specifically replying to the posts you and Reha made. Everyone has problems. Not everything is black and white.

5. Also, men vs women, I’m glad you arent arguing the post about you.

Again, please read carefully. I really dont like repeating myself and I find I do that a lot on gs because people dont read properly and just extract whatever far fetched meaning they please.