Kay so herez sum messed up advice 1 of my friendz told me although it KINDA haz SUM meanin 2 it
Lol he finally sed sumthin intelligent after a pretty long time lmaooo
Yh so NEWAYZ……
He sed……
“Don’t marry the person YOU love…marry the person that loves YOU”
Man I still cant believe that dumass sed sucha smart thing loool
Okk so this so called “theory” kinda makes sense….n kinda duznt
Suree ur spouse will prob b happy that they supposedly got their luv
But U wont
Coz u dun luv em….but he/she luvz u…n coz he/she luvz u they’ll try their VERY best 2 keep u happy
But in the end …u prob wont b happy n since U aint happy then ur spouse aint gonna b 2 happy either
Afterall u dun got the luv 4 em that they got 4 u…n if u cant return the luv…thn no1 iz gonna b happy…
So this is my opinion
I know sum of u ppl prob dun agree with me but yea w/e I cud care less…jus my opinion
So basicallyyyyyyy
I think if therez no luv in marriage thn itz better 2 jus stay single n wen I say luv I mean 4rm both of them…not 1 way luv(so effin sad)…coz u aint gonna get ANYWHERE with 1 way luv..itz hopelessss
"Dont marry the one you love, marry the one that loves you."
Sounds selfish to me. This advice can only apply to one partner, so it cant foster a happy marriage. Really, marriage is all about compromise, and maturity. Kids, who want their way all the time, always lose when it comes to marriage.
PCG, the manner in which one types is in no way indicitive of either a persons Iq, nor their outlook on life. It does however confirm them as being individuals who "type like that". Everything else is just cyber-snobbery (which in itself points to abnormally long sessions on the internet).
I have a feeling that perfectly reciprocated "mutual love" in a marrage is either only an illusion or a lie. There must be "love", hwoever there are always power stuggles. I would say, "alawys marry the individual who respcts you the most", because its out of respect that other fruitful and healthy emotions can grow.
I love looking at how you write, and then looking down at your sig, and seeing a 786.
wth do u got a prob with the way i type
coz i dun care
deal with it
im not 1 of thoz freshie nerds who hav all day 2 type in full proper sentences
thas a waste of time n unlike those typa ppl I got a life
true love is always two way....i havent yet come across a one-sided love...how can you love someone who doesnt love u back
Actually...I believe exactly the opposite is true.
If you love somebody only if they love you back, how can that be true love. Isn't true love supposed to be unconditional?
I know of several people who love someone that is either unaware or not in a position to declare their reciprocal feelings.
Actually...I believe exactly the opposite is true.
If you love somebody only if they love you back, how can that be true love. Isn't true love supposed to be unconditional?
I know of several people who love someone that is either unaware or not in a position to declare their reciprocal feelings.
and they're ok with that?? that doesn't sound like a very happy position to be in...
as for unconditional love, i think realistically, it only exists between parent and child... husbands and wives always have their limits. its human nature i guess... you create/birth something, you don't care what it does, you love it forever. i've heard this from parents over and over and over- how the love you have for your kid/s is something that is so unique and so strong, it surpasses all other kinds of love.
oh and i think you have to have mutual respect and love for each other... you can't marry someone who loves you but whom you don't love, just like you can't be loving someone all the time and marry them if they don't care about you the same way. if you don't love them, why would you commit your life to them? and if they don't love you, then, again, why are you with them?
There are a lot of women who follow this rule. I remember a few girls from college who would say that all they want is a man who is rich and not good looking so they can be the better looking ones in the couple and get attention rather than having a good looking husband who they will have to run around. Don't know about the rest of them but one ofthem married this really really average looking guy pretty much cos he was very rich and she was better looking than him.
I think insecurities lead one to come up with such criteria.
^aack. immature gals! If you think this way, you aint ready for marriage....
I knew this one gal who was like that. She was so turned off by her hubby that she refused to consummate the marriage for 9 or 10 months!! She refused to do his laundry (his underwear and socks) cause it was "too gross". Then once he put her thru dental school she divorced him.
^aack. immature gals! If you think this way, you aint ready for marriage....
I knew this one gal who was like that. She was so turned off by her hubby that she refused to consummate the marriage for 9 or 10 months!! She refused to do his laundry (his underwear and socks) cause it was "too gross". Then once he put her thru dental school she divorced him.
