If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies and gentlemen… You’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK their choices, and others PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
as much as what you have described here can be factual, there are instances in where people themselves dont know who they are, what they want and who can they take on.
the best thing is to clear your own conscience and not be the one who is insolent, a misgiver, a deceitful individual and someone who has no idea what s/he cherishes. that is the best s/he can do.
a friend, an intending and /or real flaky partner, or a blood relaton - can all be unpredictable.
for someone to discern sincerity, that person must first have the same, herself/himself.
instead, being with an open heart is a powerful feeling which your Maker will reward you for.
here is a query for everyone (females and males)
normally, without truly accepting someone, you cannot commit to that person.
thus, commitment and acceptance go hand in hand.
logically acceptance will precede commitment.
but, an instance of the opposite is an arranged marriage.
does most every man wonder cherish to have a noble relationship with only one woman or that feeling is foreign to any given or every man?
as much as what you have described here can be factual, there are instances in where people themselves dont know who they are, what they want and who can they take on.
the best thing is to clear your own conscience and not be the one who is insolent, a misgiver, a deceitful individual and someone who has no idea what s/he cherishes. that is the best s/he can do.
a friend, an intending and /or real flaky partner, or a blood relaton - can all be unpredictable.
for someone to discern sincerity, that person must first have the same, herself/himself. i
Dush! Well said. Girls! Let's reverse the above for a change and think if your man (or man to be) starts treating you in a similar way, will it promote long term commitment?
logically acceptance will precede commitment.
but, an instance of the opposite is an arranged marriage.
does most every man wonder cherish to have a noble relationship with only one woman or that feeling is foreign to any given or every man?
if you like, share your thoughts on this.
Dushwari
I don't think so. Even in arranged marriage acceptance will precede commitment. Acceptance in an arranged marriage has a much broader spectrum as it takes into account the acceptance of more than 2 people.
In general, you cannot generalize thing. On top of that people may start with one mind set and then finish with another. Our thought process is dynamic and changes with education, environment, ambitions, etc. So a person may start with a "noble" mind set and then may change later.
Coming to your question, I believe the answer will be that most men do want to have a single committed relationship (not necessarily noble), at least, initially.
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