"A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

njgal · June 17, 2009, 3:41pm

:)

Maham · June 17, 2009, 3:46pm

A mother (father) is who give you birth, give you life and the best environment according to their capacities to grow. So if someone can't love and respect people who are responsible for all this, then how can he/she love or respect any other relation sincerely. I wholeheatedly agree with this statement, saying.

candy_apple · June 17, 2009, 4:10pm

Re: "A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

Ya but what if the father or mother ruined the child's life and was a very bad person? I don't love my father and never will for completely valid reasons, this doesn't mean I don't have the capacity to love my fiance.

Reha · June 17, 2009, 5:45pm

Re: "A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

I think what it means is if a man has trouble respecting his parents, he may have a lot of problems in his marriage.

Monk · June 17, 2009, 5:51pm

Re: "A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

The girl/boy I cant stand (even for a min) IS ones who don't respect there familes.
Many of them are on GS.
Mainly because those girls/boys think their parents(specially fathers) are not good enough for western society.

redvelvet · June 17, 2009, 7:08pm

Another ASSUMPTION on your part. This is not a competition for me. I didn't know you perceived it as such. I have discussed the topic from different angles. I've even said that sometimes the DIL can be guilty. And I haven't simplified the problems. Perhaps our definitions of "discussion" differ. For you, it might mean winning/losing since you brought up this point. It's been an interesting convo. I had/have nothing against you. Thnx for ur views as well :)

bebo · June 17, 2009, 8:41pm

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Not necessarily. Every relationship has its own dimensions and you can not judge one by the other.

Deeba1234 · June 18, 2009, 5:40am

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A lot of men don't want their wives to simply respect their mothers, they want blind obedience to them..

Deeba1234 · June 18, 2009, 5:42am

Lol!! :D

Captain_FT · June 19, 2009, 5:59am

thats wrong phrase niki! i also know a man who loves his mother very much but does not loves his wife. what do ya say about that though?

most of men do love their mothers but still afer marriage become more loving and imbalanced towards their mothers

:)

Aero-Car · June 19, 2009, 11:58am

Re: "A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

The love for his mother n the love for his wife are two totally different things in every aspects ...

Haan if u are talking about respect then thats a different story ... Bcoz by learning to respect his mum he learns to respect woman in general thus would be more likely to treat his wife respectably

soni27 · June 19, 2009, 2:53pm

this is blankly bs statement that is full of utter crap

a guy loving/not loving his mother has NothIng to do with loving/not loving his wife

ex: shahid kapoor when he was totally in love with bebo. he was not even talking to his mother then..

and why is everyone talking about a guy loving his mother and wife in the SamE wAy?..when did the niKSiK or the phrase she wrote ever say oR imPly that?..

kakaballi · June 19, 2009, 4:13pm

I have never heard this one… why could that be?

Monk · June 19, 2009, 4:39pm

Re: "A man who doesn't love his mother can never love his wife"

Dudes who grow up with out father are different.
A man who wasn't closed to his mom while growing up, can lack certain norms.
Black-Boys who are close to their father(or who had their) are less likely to end up in jails.

Mother/father both play a certain part in child's mental/emotional growth. If an individual have bad relation with one of the parent.
He/she shold not be consider a GOOD candidate for arrange(blind) marriage.
How ever they can be excellent ppl, you need to take more time to get to know them.

McPendo · June 19, 2009, 8:48pm

I dont think a 25 year old man will look for mamta any more? Wouldn't you agree? i mean whats the WHOLE point of marriage?:whistling

redvelvet · June 20, 2009, 2:24am

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Dudes who grow up with out father are different.

I find this to be an interesting thought. PM, how are guys who grow up without a father different? Do you think their personality/development differs strongly from that of guys who grew up with both parents?

Also, since you brought up this point, do you think that dudes who grew up without a father relate better to women? Or do they have difficulty connecting with women? Just wanted to hear ur thoughts.

McPendo · June 20, 2009, 2:28am

I want to know how would the mimi'swee people relate to their dads?

redvelvet · June 20, 2009, 2:49am

mimi'swee? What is that? Or do you mimi's wee? Either way, I'm not familiar with the term/person. Care to explain?

McPendo · June 20, 2009, 7:12pm

Yes the Mimi'swee are a partialy evolved marsupial humoniod creatures that dwell in the caverns under mount erebus on the continent of Antartica. And are hunted by the 10ft tall lizards called the crak'en. It comes from a book called Subteranean by James Rollins. I was making a joke! lol the mimi'swee are a totally wild people.