i am against all the fazool rasmain "mhendi, mayoon,joota chupai". and inshaALLAH i will not have any of it on my wedding. i will inshaALLAH convince my future hubby to get the estimate of all these fazool rasams (go to the video person, hall ppl and bla bla) and sadqa the equal amount. inshaALLAH
but then its the way i have planned. i dont know who is assist me in future, and neither i am aware of my in-laws. i also dont know what my MIL-to be has planned for his son. cuz since i have plans for mine, there is chance she also has planned many thing.
my intentions are honest, and if she likes to have something then she can have it. cuz if something is making someone happy, then i must acknowledge that this is my foremost responsibility as a human.
so if her parents wants to have something insert any hindu rasam then let them have it, and pray to ALLAH SWT to show them the right path. her hindu parents are ignorant so welcome em in your circle.
imans third stage is if you dont like something, atleast call it bad it your heart.
I didnt had any mayoon or mehandi...only Nikah and rukhsati...and i was ok with that..even thou i always planned for mehandi dress mayoon dress...but i think isi tarha naseeb mai thee to yehi sahi :)